doormat，就是家门口地上放的那个地垫，Cambridge Dictionary上解释说 a person who accepts being treated badly and does not complain，就是受虐狂嘛。

压力的英文是 stress，分两种：
让你感到忧伤、疲惫、受罪的压力叫 distress.
还有一种正向的stress，让你感到开心的“压力”英文叫 eustress.