第1264期:九月读的第一本好书 – Atomic Habits

最近这本书很火,有个香港朋友专门跟我推荐,并一再嘱咐一定要读英文原版。

一般来说被别人推荐的书,你的期望值会很高,于是就容易失望,即便内容很好。但这本书没有让我失望,对得起这个爆炸的名字和朋友的推荐。

我每个月平均读4-6本英文书,最低限度是一周一本。四本书基本上包括一本励志书、一本纯文学书、一本工作或专业相关的书、一本纽时或英文主流榜单上的畅销书。基本上我每个月都会读这四大类的书,读得太快,时间太少,所以很多好书读完了,自己也做了读书笔记,但腾不出时间专门来写读后感或书评。

这是我近期在努力尝试改变的一个做法,我争取读完一本好书就整理一篇简短的书评或推荐感言,及时跟大家分享。

今天推荐的好书是 Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones, by James Clear.

从书名大家可以看出来这本书的主要内容是教你养成好习惯,摒除坏习惯的,副标题一般就是一本书最核心的重点。

翻开任何一本书,你首先应该看什么?

封面上的广告语?扉页上的blurb?作者的自序或请人写的序(preface)?

这一点因人而异,但我一般的做法是先看全书目录(table of contents),我会花较长时间仔细看一本书的目录,有时候甚至会把目录全部抄下来反复看,因为一本书的脉络和作者的思维方法都在目录里面。看懂了目录,一本书你就基本看懂了一半。

Atomic Habits(《原子习惯》)的目录如下

Chapter 1: The Surprising Power of Tiny Habits

Chapter 2: How Your Habits Shape Your Identity (and Vice Versa)

Chapter 3: How to Build Better Habits in 4 Simple Steps

Chapter 4: The Man Who Didn’t Look Right

Chapter 5: The Best Way to Start a New Habit

Chapter 6: Motivation is Overrated; Environment Often Matters More

Chapter 7: The Secret to Self-Control

Chapter 8: How to Make a Habit Irresistible

Chapter 9: The Role of Family and Friends in Shaping Your Habits

Chapter 10: How to Find and Fix The Cause of Your Bad Habits

Chapter 11: Walk Slowly, But Never Backward

Chapter 12: The Law of Least Effort

Chapter 13: How to Stop Procrastinating by Using the Two-Minute Rule

Chapter 14: How to Make Good Habits Inevitable and Bad Habits Impossible

Chapter 15: The Cardinal Rule of Behavior Change

Chapter 16: How to Stick with Good Habits Every Day

Chapter 17: How an Accountability Partner Changes Everything

Chapter 18: The Truth About Talent (When Genes Matter and When They Don’t)

Chapter 19: The Goldilocks Rule—How to Stay Motivated in Life and Work

Chapter 20: The Downside of Creating Good Habits

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About the author


*图片采自作者官网:www.jamesclear.com


What’s the book about? 这本书主要讲了什么?

我用一句话总结:

改掉生活中的坏习惯,同时培养好习惯,并且重复这些好习惯,长期下来就会产生一种正向的复利效应,影响和改变你的人生。


What are the main ideas? 核心内容有哪些?

全书20章阐述了五个核心理念:

1. Get 1% better every day with good and small habits  通过重复良好的小习惯,每天提高1%.

2. How to break bad habits and cultivate good ones 怎样打破坏习惯,培养好习惯?

3. Common mistakes 人们在破旧立新的过程中常犯的错误

4. Best practices 人们在破旧立新的过程中的最佳实践经验

5. How to apply these ideas in real life scenarios 怎样把这些理念应用到实际生活中去?

了解了作者的这个脉络,你看书就不会走丢。整本书就在讲这五个要点。

这五个要点里面又包含了几十个小要点和理念,仅举几例如下:

• 1% better every day 每天变好一个八仙

– Small habits make a big difference.

– Habits are the compound interest of self-improvement.

– Good habits can have positive compounding effect, and bad habits can have negative compounding effect on you.

– If you can get 1 percent better each day for one year, you’ll end up thirty-seven times better by the time you’re done.

– Conversely, if you get 1 percent worse each day for one year, you’ll decline nearly down to zero.

引用了几句作者的原话浓缩了这个小要点。

• Systems vs goals 系统与目标

作者提出,目标只是你想要什么,很多人知道自己想要什么,但一辈子也得不到,不是没有目标(goal),而是没有系统(system),缺乏实现目标的合理的过程。

– goals are about the results you want to achieve. Systems are about the processes that lead to those results.

– goals are good for setting a direction, but systems are best for making progress.


• Habit loop 习惯闭环

任何一个习惯都由四个阶段构成:

Cue(线索)- 刺激大脑开始一个行为

Craving (渴望)– 每个习惯背后的动力源

Response(反应) – 习惯行为本身

Reward (奖励)– 习惯的终极目标

理论是:线索触发一个渴望,渴望激发反应,反应得到一个奖励,奖励满足渴望,关联线索,最终养成了一个习惯。

上面这段话是我随手翻译的,没推敲。大概正式的中文版译者比我翻译得好多了,但你也能看到这种励志书的英文一翻译就变味,一点味道都没了。所以,一定要读英文原版。


Build better habits in 4 steps 用这个习惯闭环四步骤理论养成好习惯

1. cue- make it obvious

2. craving – make it attractive

3. response – make it easy

4. reward – make it satisfying

• Break bad habits 用这个闭环四步理论打破坏习惯

1. cue – make it invisible

2. craving – make it unattractive

3. response – make it difficult

4. reward – make it unsatisfying

最后这两个小部分的内容十分精彩并且很实用,能读懂最后这两点,这本书的80%就归你了。

祝你阅读快乐。

如果你对此类励志书感兴趣,再推荐几本好书给你:

  • The Compound Effect: Jumpstart Your Income, Your Life, Your Success, by Darren Hardy
  • Better Than Before: Mastering the Habits of Our Everyday Lives, by Gretchen Rubin
  • Mini Habits: Smaller Habits, Bigger Results, by Stephen Guise